Having just agreed upon the new Terms & Conditions regarding age requirements for SL, I decided I would finally post my feelings on children being in Second Life.
I hesitated to post about it for a long time because I believe to "live and let live". Just because I don't like or don't understand something doesn't mean that I can't accept it. An it harm none, do what ye will. I'm a believer!
I understand that child characters provide a different creative outlet, lend themselves to different role play storylines and (with romantic relationships being such a huge part of the SL experience) are a natural progression for people who want to take their relationship/family to another level. I get all that.
Unfortunately, I think it's a slippery slope that I personally don't want to go anywhere near.
I don't like it. That goes for child avatars being controlled by adults and people playing the game that are under the age of 18. I'm sorry to offend anyone but that was my first reaction upon seeing a child in world for the first time (in an adults only region of course) and my feelings haven't changed.
The first time I ever spoke a child avatar, I felt like a total creep even though all I did was reply that her outfit was also "very pretty". That's it! It just felt wrong. With everything we (as adults) know about the Internet and how vulnerable children are here, it just doesn't seem right to involve them in the game.
I am openly critical of the decision to allow users 13 years of age and over in the game. With the obvious understanding that where there's a will there's a way I don't think we need to make it easier for real children to become caught up in the make believe world that adults create.
I will post more on this another time, I just needed to put that out there. Mostly just to open the discussion....what do y'all think?
I am always open to creative, thought-provoking communication and welcome your comments any time! :)
Blessings as always,
~Moirae